Hi.
I just watched Hitman on Netflix. It's a fun movie.
At the beginning of the movie, the characters, a teacher and his students, discuss the topic of comfort zones. As typical as it sounds, the teacher encourages his students to put themselves out there, take risks, and get out of their comfort zones, because life is short. Shortly after, it shows how the teacher's life is simple and plain, which is him living in his comfort zone - nothing like he encourages his students. He states that he loves that simple and plain life.
Reflecting on that scene made me remember one lady boss who questioned my choice to work in the government sector at a young age. In her opinion, it was a missed opportunity because the young generation should explore the challenging world instead and only settle for comfort when they're older or at retirement age like she did.
It made me reflect on my ordinary life, living in my comfort zone. I still remember the struggle every time I changed to a new job. I needed a period to adjust to the work environment, the people and the house I lived in. It was not easy for me as an introvert, especially when I was shifting to my current job - transitioning from a regular employee to a team leader, and then doing my part-time Masters study while working. It was hard. Now that I finished my Masters study and living a comfortable life for almost two years, I think I love this life. I love living in my comfort zone.
Some people love to explore challenges and adventures in life. But some people might be afraid, or not really afraid, but more to have a preference to live a quiet and simple life. Both life has their own pros and cons. It's true that if you go for a challenging and adventurous life, you might encounter a great life opportunity. But I think it's also not wrong to live on the safe side, and not take risks because living in your comfort zone was never a missed opportunity, but rather an opportunity to live with peace of mind.
Do you tend to get out of your comfort zone or prefer living in your comfort zone like me?
Till then,
Lya.
Yesss, I totally feel this! Not everyone's cut out for that nonstop hustle, and I love that you're embracing what works for YOU. A peaceful, comfortable life sounds pretty amazing to me too <3
ReplyDeleteLenne | www.lennezulkiflly.com
I know right? It's okay and actually enjoyable to live a peaceful life
DeleteThere's absolutely nothing wrong with slow living! I am embracing my simple, mundane life. Best kot! x
ReplyDeleteereen | https://www.everydayereen.com
Yeah kan! We love living with kepala tak serabut. Huhu
Deletekdang comfort zone ni sy anggap sebagai self reward. kita dah penat bekerja dan kita berhak untuk hidup dlm.keadaan yg selesa dan tenang. semua ji bgs utk kesihatan mental.kita juga
ReplyDeleteBetul tu. Nice words that comfort zone actually a self reward ;)
DeleteKadang saya berfikir..sebetulnya yg di cari manusia dalam hidup itu apa sih... ketenangan batin...kenyamanan..atau kehidupan yg penuh tantangan ? Tapi memang ada plus minusnya ya...saya sendiri terbiasa dengan zona nyaman saya.
ReplyDeleteYa, setiap dari kita pasti ada kehendak masing-masing dalam melayari kehidupan. Setiap pilihan juga tidak salah, selagi ia memuaskan hati dan kehendak hidup kita.
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